Auctioning Virginity

Posted on December 9, 2010 by scalestosuccess2.com

This is a very sensitive subject I am compelled to write about. On the Maury show today, there was a young lady, who wanted to auction off her virginity to financially support her family. Now, I am not sure how you feel about this but let us go back in time and mentally think of our first experience. However we decide to remember it, we learned much from it.

To think about auctioning ones virginity is just incalculable. Yet, we have shows that will put an idea in a young girls mind of how this is a way out of poverty. We are now limiting our most priceless possession as young women to a dollar amount before we even experience love for the first time.

Now, we must consider what happens to this young lady after the situation has occurred. Will she feel good about her self-esteem? Will her reputation always be tainted as having sold herself to the highest bidder? Will she be able to see a man in her life as more than just a dollar sign? What about virtue?

How many of us gave our virginity away with nothing at all to show for it? Those who were violated, those who never had the chance to auction themselves even if they wanted to, how are they to feel when she reports her millionaire status from her first experience? Is a million even enough?

My heart goes out to anyone who would even consider this situation. As a mother of two girls, I could not open my heart to the idea, whatsoever. It is simply ridiculous how we place a dollar value on morals, values ethics and principles. I am not judging anyone as I am trying to be very careful with my presentation of this article.

Free will has always been a great part of our decision-making. It allows us the opportunity to do what we feel is the best solution in our current situation. However, it is gravely important to realize the risks as well as the will to freely decide. Most will never have to deal with this issue. But some of our young ladies will be confronted with this idea, understanding it’s their final choice. Yet, what would you do if your daughter came to you and suggested a solution out of debt for your family, by auctioning off her virginity, what would you do?

Please feel free to comment through e-mail @ scalestosuccess2@aol.com because this is a matter that I am compelled to take to legislation if need be and may need the backing of those who have seriously been touched by this article. Feel free to give me your strongest points of view. Being just another aspect to young women and what ideas befall them in our society.

Dorina Shine

Knowledge and Wisdom brings Equality

I must give credit where credit is due. The Honorable and most high essence of good within my life is responsible for my success at this point. I am nowhere near where I will be. Yet, I'm inspired that I am not where I use to be. When we take heed to the journey, life becomes a great deal easier and our future automatically brightens. Why fight against the positive that embraces us daily? This is where I am in life. There are stumbling blocks, right now that are standing in my way. However, I adhere to those issues and face the challenges as they surface. Knowledge that in all things understanding must be achieved. I know why I must go through the highs and lows at this point in life. I will be OK! I know trouble is only seasonal and all things shall eventually pass. It is here, my growth in faith becomes stronger and builds my character. Allowing me to go forth in the will my creator has granted. Equality is knowing that God will not place more on me than I am able to bear. Allowing me the position to go without fear, into the unknown. With the essence of goodness and originality right beside me. Knowing that with God, all things are possible. My main purpose is to bring awareness to someone else from some power much greater than my success!
~Dorina Shine

ATTENTION...Ancestral connect!!!

by Dorina Shine on Friday, November 12, 2010 at 3:24pm

I've wondered what my reasons for being here on earth were all about. One thing that was universally laid on my heart was purpose to be fulfilled within me. Meaning, I must believe in my abilities and those within my community. I am the cloth within the good that dwells from within me. Not saying I don't have the free will to do whatever I choose. I am saying that, if I choose the path least traveled, I will come out and I will be heard whether I am in the flesh or in the spirit, in the end. The ways of the Ancestors will come to the light in its own time. I may not be as respected for my works in the physical form. But, Universally my documented poetry, words, quotes will be opened to man so far in the future, one will remember. So, with that knowledge, I will not submit to the wrongs I see around me within this abusive world of chaos. I will submit to the high calling I have established. With understanding and wisdom I will overstand the situation that will not come back void. Oh, what a relief it is to know that even if I don't see man hearing or listening to the words running through me, connected eternally, I know that its not in vain. Maat, Hotep~ .



Dorina Shine

Back at it again!

It has been a while since I've last posted. So much has gone on and I wont even begin. Lets just say that God has orchestrated everything to this point. So, why should I interrupt now? I have no complaints. Tho most would if they recently quit their job, finalized a divorce, have custody of two boys under the age of 3 and met so many people with their own agendas till it feels like, whats the use. Well, I recently endured all that but I am still here, happy, not wanting for anything and still on top. Oh, by the way, I have just started working for myself. I mean I have had the business for over 4 years but this has now became my money maker. I am self employed. Doing this for myself, filing my own taxes as my employer and I am still recovering from bad credit (lol). But, I would not change my position for anything in this world. I am telling you all of this because I want you to know that I'm an everyday person just like yourself who's finally stepping out on faith and renewing my vows with my strength (God) because the essence of his origination still dwells within me. This is to show the world that with commitment, determination, action and vision anything is possible. Well, God bless and hope you check out my website for my business mission that is so unique you will think, now why didn't I think of that. May The Universal God protect us through our day.

Recognizing Order

Today, I will recognize my trust and honor in the most high.
I will search for the path that I should take.
Each day, I awake, I should seek that new path within me that will bring new life
to the area of my rightful order.

Keeping my soul and energy restored
Keeping my thoughts pure and real
This is the known path of my destiny!

Walking through a series of storms
I know I am not alone.
I feel worn and torn
Yet, I know that I am not alone.

I feel the presence of a power much stronger than my own
This existence allows me comfort
I want to be embraced
I want to be loved and cherished by it!

So, this day is a new gift granted to me
I shall take with me all the wisdom
from within the knowledge I have been connected to.
Today, I give birth to that power that has been released

Universally, within me I seek to rise above the normality
that exists around me.
I am power, I am strength and I am courage.

I seek what I am!

Dorina Shine © 2010

Speaking Growth into our being!

I want to be free and fly as high as the sky
my thoughts are visualized
no vision is compromised.

My heart is pure and I am real as can be
Wanting those of the same nature to fly with me
Soar beyond the normal and dare to use the process of the mind
to create the next vision that is now suspended in time.

It takes those with a mission to comprehend this description
The manifestation of all things in existence
So, keep the focus alive and strive to be on point
Let no one steal your dreams and force their determination into your view
Its right here, I become the true me
You, the truest you~

This was a flow I felt compelled to share because it was so deep in my heart. Too many times we second guess ourselves because of something that we are afraid of. This in not living, this is existing within the footsteps of another. Now is the time to step out on our own faith and make the past mistakes become our stepping stone to a better future. Walk up into your existence.

Dorina Shine © 2010

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